Lights, Music, Confidence! How The Stage Boosts Your Child’s Self Esteem

Social interactions can be daunting for shy children. You, as the parent, on the other hand, are committed to trying your very best to support your child in becoming more confident. Fortunately, the world of music and performing arts is here to help you by offering a unique opportunity for your child to overcome any social challenge: The stage.

Being on stage for a shy child might sound to you at first like a terrifying experience as if it’s the last place you want them to be. The reality is that there’s no better setting for a child to feel loved, heard, important and at the same time connected to others.

1. The Stage is a Safe Space for Expression

Music and the stage provide a safe and supportive environment for children to express themselves creatively without fear of judgment. This can be particularly beneficial for shy children who may struggle to find their voice in other social settings. By exploring their emotions and ideas through music and performance, children can develop a sense of self-expression and agency.

2. It Builds a Sense of Community

Being part of a music group or theatre ensemble fosters a sense of belonging and connection with others. Shared experiences, such as practising together, performing on stage, and celebrating achievements, can help children feel less alone and more confident in their abilities. This sense of community can also provide a supportive network for your child.

For this reason, we continuously offer all our students the opportunity to perform on stage with professional musicians from our team.

3. Performing Helps Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking

Performing on stage, even in small roles, can help children gradually overcome their fear of public speaking. As they become more comfortable with performing, they may also find that their confidence in other social situations improves. Additionally, the positive reinforcement and applause from the audience can boost self-esteem and reduce anxiety.

4. It Develops Self-Discipline and Focus

Learning to play an instrument or master a dance routine requires dedication and discipline. This can help children develop self-control and focus, which can be beneficial for overcoming shyness and anxiety. By focusing on their music or performance, children can learn to forget about their worries and anxieties, allowing them to be fully present in the moment.

5. Performing Boosts Self Esteem

Accomplishing musical or theatrical goals can boost a child’s self-esteem and confidence. When children see themselves improving and achieving their goals, they are more likely to believe in themselves and their abilities. We witness every day how positive feedback from teachers, peers, and parents can also reinforce your child’s sense of self-worth and help them overcome feelings of shyness.

6. Music Develops Emotional Intelligence

Music and the stage can help children develop emotional intelligence by teaching them to recognize, understand, and manage their emotions. Through the expression of emotions in music and performance, children can learn to communicate their feelings in a healthy and constructive way. This can be particularly helpful for shy children who may struggle to express themselves verbally.

7. Expands Creativity and Imagination

Music and the stage are highly creative endeavours that can help children develop their imagination and problem-solving skills. By exploring different musical styles, creating new characters, or designing stage sets, children can learn to think outside the box and find creative solutions to challenges.

You can gift your child all of the above.

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